She is the type of woman who needs alone time. She feels deep, she thinks even deeper. Her alone time allows her to figure out her mood, where her energy is, and how to take each step in life. ~Sylvester Mcnutt
Did you know that there are so many benefits of spending time alone? Today, I wanna share with you my personal encounters.
So here's a bunch of the AFTERGLOW OF SPENDING TIME ALONE: [FIRST] Deeper self-realization comes in when we pause from our routines once in awhile. [SECOND] You will learn how to manage your fear of being alone as you explore things on your own. [THIRD] You will start developing your personal communication skill through interaction to the people you don’t know. [FOURTH] You will give yourself a chance to better your self-confidence and stretch out your self-esteem. [FIFTH] Your eyes will be open to appreciate the people who truly cares, understands, and loves you.
When you get to experience this, you'll appreciate your God-given life more! Now, let me give you some helpful bullets to guide you all the way as you start exploring yourself and the beauty of life at the same time.
What should I do? First things first, do something that you love doing. Does it have to be grandiose? No. Does it have to be expensive? No. But remember that it has to be realistic and aligned with your current situation. NOW THINK.
How often should I spend time alone? Well, there’s no specific time frame in spending time alone because it differs for every person’s characteristics, attitudes and way of living. FIND TIME.
Where should I spend my me-time? Look for a place wherein you can be yourself, away from distraction and a place where you can enjoy your break. BE IT NEAR OR FAR.
Just like what I had today. I really had great time at TCA. I honestly recommend The Coffee Academics here in Hong Kong if you're here and looking for a safe place to stay. As what I have checked, they currently have 10 branches all over the country. Come and see this good spot where I spent a superb time alone!
As for me, SPENDING TIME ALONE in a not too crowded coffee shop is more than enough. When you do things for yourself, it doesn’t have to be expensive, it doesn’t have to be that far. Place yourself away from your life’s pattern and there you go, be yourself! After awhile, you'll be back on track with stronger version of yourself!
Whenever you feel the need of going out alone, just give yourself a break from your routines. But always remember that there’s nothing wrong to have some people in your life whom you can share your happy thoughts and confide with. Above all, we got a God who’s always with us wherever we go.
DARE TO INVEST TIME FOR YOURSELF AND LET ME KNOW HOW DID IT HELP YOU GROW AS A PERSON. Until our next thoughts! :)